how to get your eyes off your spouse

when i first got married, i thought that marriage was about me. i wouldn’t have said that, of course. but the reason i got married in the first place is because i loved how he loved me. i loved how i felt around him. i loved how secure he made me feel. i loved that i would be taken care of and that i wouldn’t be lonely anymore. for our first year, it was fun and fast paced. we did a lot of things really fast like buy a house, buy a car, and well…have a baby. .... i'm guest posting over at my friend anna's blog today! you can read the rest of this post over there! smooches(jk), jami