Relationships are difficult, complex, tedious, and require a lot of perseverance and determination. As I mentioned in a
previous post, you choose your own happiness. Additionally, you choose your own destiny and the person you want to become, and when you put your best effort towards anything and leave nothing up to chance, the results will speak for themselves.
This may sound like a lot of hard work, but just like anything that's worthwhile, nothing will come easy. Besides, where's the joy in achieving something when you don't have to work for it?