Butterfly Girls Night Out, A Tale Of Passion


people will stare, make it worth their while - Tammy
Who knew my life would take a turn for the worst, and yet become the best thing that has ever happened to me. I missed the best years of my youth, blind folded in the dark, crossing each emotional whirlwind holding my heart in my hand. The day I started The Butterfly Project was the day I unknowingly walk towards that great despair, only to discover the strength I have to face the unknown. Did I regret throwing that pebble into the pond that ripples into the future? I asked myself repeatedly in August.
The answer is no.
I would never give up something I love. Love shouldn't hold you back from doing great work, no matter how insignificant it may be. Steve Jobs said, "The only way to do great work is to love what you do".
Miraculously, I survived a life challenge that did not paralyze me. A long-term relationship of 13 years (engaged) was out of my system in a matter of 2 months. For the first time in my life, I felt freedom as an individual. I felt released and free to be me. No more fears, no more control, no more serving and submitting to this “person”. The constant verbal and emotional abuse from him, made me stronger. For this, I forgive and thank him for teaching me a valuable lesson in love, life and relationships.
the Butterfly Project Girls Night Out
To celebrate my newfound status, I met up with TGV Malaysia's PR Manager Regina and proposed a celebration that mimics the freedom and luxury of being a woman in this century inspired by my favorite show - Sex & The City. It would be called, The Butterfly Girls Night Out. An elevated experience at Indulge by TGV Malaysia where butterflies would turn heads that night.

TGV Malaysia 'Indulge' luxury cinema experience
The night would start with foreplay of soft jazz music, a round of mocktails and a tantalizing 10-course fine dining ballad that ends with a cinematic seduction watching Scarlet Johansen's “Lucy” in the luxury cinematic hall – Indulge.

a fine dining experience without the fine dining price tag

jazz music in the background

Western & Asian Fusion Cusisine

thanks TGV Malaysia for the hospitality!
(popcorn, drinks, desserts served during movie)

check out my fluffy blanket yay!
(cannot bring back)

Being a visionary, I wasn’t satisfied just with that. Calls were made to Muse by Watsons (Watson’s Luxury Store) who generously sponsored 3 best dressed hampers worth RM1k and skincare products for invited guests. Next were to include a photobooth experience to recreate that red carpet paparazzi feel so I contacted 123Cheese.com.my (by far the best & most fun photobooth service I have used).

Muse by Watsons, our goodie bag sponsor
this is the exact copy of the photobooth print (instagram design)


once a while, I'll glam up for a special night
Now what’s missing? Oh a makeover to make everyone scream that night when they see me welcoming them in Indulge. Who better to set an example of a Girl’s Night Out experience? Boy did I have fun turning heads and shocking everyone who did not realize it was me.
it feels good to be me again
In the end, it’s not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away.
XOXO, Tammy Founder of The Butterfly Project
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P.S: Many thanks to TGV Malaysia, Muse by Watson, 123Cheese.com.my, volunteers who helped out that night and butterflies for supporting The Butterfly Project. It’s been hell of a great year ☺

Indulge, TGV Malaysia
A luxury cinematic experience for cinema goers who appreciates the finer things in life. Two (2) exclusive and spacious cinema halls that has reclining chairs, fluffy blankets, a private call to the waiter (food & drinks served right to you). Not forgetting a luxury private lounge where Western and Asian fusion cuisine is available at an affordable price. Don’t let the ambiance fool you. Menu and prices here. Tickets at RM45 per pax.
Muse by Watsons
Muse by Watsons is both a source of beauty, and a source of inspiration. We provide premium products and experience s that enable our customers to unlock their own beauty potential through an experience of creative discovery. Inspiring in our customers, a sense of both confidence and indulgence.
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