Modern Etiquette: Good Ideas for Tough Times
Today’s etiquette topic is one that’s near and dear to my heart. I’ve been through some pretty major life changes in the past few years (Divorce, major health issues and several family deaths, among others) and I’ve been both pleased and surprised by the way people around me have reacted. I was moved and touched by the way that both complete strangers and dear friends stepped forward to support me and saddened by the way some people chose to shrink away, out of fear, confusion or not being sure what to say. So, after hearing from a dear friend who reminded me of a floral arrangement I sent after the death of her mother-in-law, it inspired me to tackle the idea of bereavement. It’s a sad topic, but one that we all deal with at one time or another. And I truly feel that most people want to support people in tough times, but often don’t know the best way to handle the situation. So today I thought I’d cover a few guidelines that will help you support the people around you- and help teach them ways to support you when you’re going through a tough time. As always, I welcome and wholeheartedly encourage you all to respond with your thoughts. It’s hard to know how all of these situations feel until you’ve been through them, so I hope those of you who’ve been through some of these tough times can let us know what would have been the best way to support you in that moment. xo, grace
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