Growing Up Social: Raising Relational Kids in a Screen-Driven World I have often felt overwhelmed as a parent when it comes to making decisions regarding my daughter's screen time. When I have projects to complete, am working hard to get dinner on the table, or am running late for something, my life saver is often Curious George. It's hard for me to admit that because before I ever became a mother, I swore up and down that my children were not going to be little TV addicts. I think many parents today feel a sense of defeat when it comes to screen time for their kids. Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane have addressed that sense of helplessness in parents in their book
Growing Up Social: raising relational kids in a screen-driven world. I am so excited to have been given a chance to read and review this book as it offered so much relevant information on how screen time really effects our kids, their brains, their friendships, their families and so much more!
Even though my 2 year old watches less than an hour of TV a day on average, it still somehow seems to control our home. It's the first thing she asks for when she wakes up, and what she asks for often throughout the day. I've noticed how addicting screen time can be even for my toddler. The more she watches, the more she wants to watch and the less time she spends coloring, reading and playing with her toys. As Chapman and Pellicane in
Growing Up Social say, "Unfortunately, the more a child is involved in screen time, the less time there is for interaction with parents, siblings, and friends." This book really opened my eyes to the hold that TV, Ipads, Iphones and other screened items can have in a family. Not only did it open my eyes to some of the things I was allowing for my daughter that could have negative effects but it also offered reasonable solutions for breaking my child (and myself) from addictive habits!
I began reading
Growing Up Social while I was on Thanksgiving break and visiting family. It was amazing to me to observe firsthand the hold that social media has on kids! These three busy toddlers were running around playing chase, hide and go seek, and all sorts of fun interactive games. But the minute the Ipad turned on, they sat as still as statues and were glued to the screen! Now, in this case, they only watched a show for less than an hour and spent most of the week playing and interacting with each other which is great! But unfortunately for a majority of children these days that is not the case!
Overall I think
Growing Up Social is a very timely and necessary book for today. After finishing the book, I did not feel guilty or discouraged for the way I have handled screen time in our home, but I definitely was inspired to do things a little differently with my daughter and excited to see the positive impact that has on her!
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Colossians 3:17
And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.