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The Stranger: Savage Love
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Seattle's #1 Weekly Newspaper. Covering Seattle news, politics, music, film, and arts; plus movie times, club calendars, restaurant listings, forums, blogs, and Savage Love.
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Savage Love

Too Fast by Dan Savage Im a 17-year-old girl and, in most aspects, Im confident with myself, my identity, and my body. Earlier this year, I met a girl. She had some serious drama at home and needed t...

5 days ago

Savage Love

Shady Ladies by Dan Savage I work in an office tower in downtown Seattle. From time to time, I go to a bathroom on a mostly deserted floor, go into a stall, and rub out a quick one. Usually, no one c...

16 may 12

Savage Love

Unscrew the Pooch by Dan Savage I am a 26-year-old straight guy. My straightness and guyness are recent revelations, and it feels amazing to be able to confidently state this. Here is my trouble: Ive...

09 may 12

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Busted by Dan Savage I am a straight 29-year-old guy and Ive been into ball busting—having my balls kicked and stomped—since I was 14. The fucked-up thing is, I only enjoy getting my ball...

02 may 12

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Hooking Up by Dan Savage Is it possible for a hookup to turn into a relationship? Hoping One Person Enters A hookup is a relationship, HOPE. It may be a short-term relationship, but its a relationshi...

25 apr 12

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Ass Ed by Dan Savage Im gay and a junior in high school, and Ive had a boyfriend for a year. (Hes one year older than me, Dan, so relax!) We are out to our parents and everyone is supportive. We are ...

18 apr 12

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Premarital Counseling by Dan Savage My fiancé and I have been together for six years. Were both 27. About a year ago, he admitted to me that he is bi—which I was surprised about. I told ...

11 apr 12

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Catnip by Dan Savage I have an awesome relationship with an awesome guy. He loves me and takes care of me. Im GGG and hes vanilla. I only draw the line at poop, animals, and children. But hes never a...

04 apr 12

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Boys, Boys, Boys by Dan Savage I am the father of a recently out 18-year-old gay boy. Heres the problem: My son is in a relationship with a 31-year-old guy. Im not okay with that. Yes, my son is a le...

28 mar 12

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Need to Know by Dan Savage I was recently advised to begin reading your column by my therapist. I am a 21-year-old male and a senior at an Ivy League school. Despite my academic success, Ive battled ...

21 mar 12

Savage Love

Bleach Party by Dan Savage Thank you for your advocacy of monogamishy. (Monogamishness?) When I fell in love with my gloriously kinky and GGG wife several years ago, we were honest about our sexual d...

14 mar 12

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Another Gold-Star Pedophile by Dan Savage Im a gay man in my late 20s who has been trying to deal with an attraction to young boys since I hit puberty. I know that what I feel is wrong and wish to Ch...

07 mar 12

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Threes by Dan Savage I had a threesome with my husband and another woman because I am GGG and thats always been a fantasy of his. I laid out my ground rules, and they were violated. (I said I was unc...

29 feb 12

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No Pressure by Dan Savage I am a straight 24-year-old female who has known my fiancé since freshman year of college. He has a fetish where he likes to watch women use the bathroom. I knew this...

22 feb 12

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University of Alaska Anchorage by Dan Savage I headed north last week to do Savage Love Live—a rapid-fire, slightly tipsy Q&A session—at the University of Alaska Anchorage. It was my ...

15 feb 12

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Secrets and Lies by Dan Savage Im a 21-year-old gay male. My friend "Marcelo" is friends with "Chad." Everyone who meets Chad assumes hes gay. Never had a girlfriend, a dance major, d...

08 feb 12

Savage Love

Secrets and Lies by Dan Savage My husband is a very kinky submissive man. When we were dating, I found out that he had been talking to multiple people online and that he had met up with a professiona...

01 feb 12

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Hopelessly Devoted by Dan Savage Have boyfriend. Several months. Love sex. First time we sixty-nine, I notice he has a little turtlehead sticking out. You get me? Second time, he has bits of toilet p...

25 jan 12

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Out Now by Dan Savage My 13-year-old son came out to us this morning. He plans to tell his brothers in the next few days. We love and accept our son, and this news isnt surprising (but when will the ...

18 jan 12

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Santorum Surges by Dan Savage I am writing to thank you. I remember reading your definition of "santorum"—" the frothy mix of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the byproduct of...

11 jan 12

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Meet the Monogamish by Dan Savage Why do most people assume that all nonmonogamous relationships are destined to fail? Because we only hear about the ones that do. If a three-way or an affair was a f...

04 jan 12 1 person likes this

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The Subs Paradox by Dan Savage I am a 25-year-old gay man. Although I have always accepted my homosexuality and never really felt bad about it, recently I have been going through a hard time psycholo...

28 dec 11

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Good Friends by Dan Savage My sexy GGG husband and I fuck a "good friend" semiregularly. Hes hot, young, and game to fuck about every other week. We started out wearing condoms, but weve had ...

21 dec 11

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Spanked by Dan Savage Im a man who recently started seeing a wonderful woman. Like me, shes divorced. While my ex-wife left me for another man, my girlfriends ex-husband was controlling and abusive. ...

14 dec 11

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The 23-Year Itch by Dan Savage Im a happily married woman. I have a great sex life with my husband of many years. Hes helped me discover things I didnt know about myself sexually. The problem: Three ...

07 dec 11

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Busted by Dan Savage Im a 21-year-old woman from Canada who sleeps with other women. Two questions for you: 1. My LGBT friends and I disagree about what we girls who sleep with girls exclusively shou...

30 nov 11

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Ciscontent by Dan Savage Im 26, straight, and male. I consider myself a socially progressive person, have been a vocal supporter of LGBT issues since high school, and was president of my college Gay-...

23 nov 11

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@fakedansavage by Dan Savage Im 21 years old and in a monogamous relationship. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, and it was a really great experience. I was drawn to BDSM even before I began havin...

16 nov 11

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Sexually Combatible by Dan Savage Im an evangelical Christian in a country where that is not a political statement. My husband and I have been married five years. We have great sex several times a we...

09 nov 11

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Wedding Party by Dan Savage I am marrying a man with two children—a boy and a girl—and we want to include his children in our wedding party. My best friend and maid of honor happens to wo...

02 nov 11

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