One of my favorite bits by Martin Lawrence is this joke he does about his girl wearing what he calls a “f*ck him dress.”* For those who don’t know what the “f*ck him dressR...
In 2008, I went through the most dramatic breakup I ever experienced. Long time readers are very familiar with my ex who lived with me for about a year. I’ve told stories on this blog of our tu...
If I have to spell out exactly what I mean by the title of this post, chances are, you are a prude. Also, Mom, sister, family, former teachers, role models, stop reading now. I’m not about to s...
For those not familiar with the name Hannibal Buress, allow me to run down some of his resume: Writer for “30 Rock” and “Saturday Night Live” Stand-up comedian, most recently ...
You think being unfaithful can only happen when you either sleep with someone else or you develop feelings for someone else. You’re wrong. There’s all sorts of ways you’re unfaithfu...
The first time I saw Gregory Porter was in 2010, at a sparsely attended show he put on at Drom. The sight of a young jazz vocalist in this day and age is about as common as seeing a unicorn, so even ...
For the next four weeks, I will be writing three posts a week over at The Loop 21. Those not familiar with the site can go here. My work will appear in their relationship column entitled, “bitt...
Consider yourself lucky if you ever get a chance to see them give you the look. It’s going to stay with you forever and whether or not you two stay together, it’s a look you’ll neve...
Right now, the number three most emailed article from the New York Times is a piece entitled “Why Black Women Are Fat” (stay classy, New York Times), written by a woman named Alice Randal...
If there is one thing I believe every woman wants in a man, it’s an ability to make her feel safe. We don’t have to be the most towering or hulking figure, nor do we have to be the most d...
This morning, I had the privilege of appearing on WPIX Morning News, a New York City-based news show that airs on the NYC CW affiliate. I appeared alongside Steve Covino and Rich Davis, hosts of the ...
Remember when the past was the present and how we would talk about the future? In those moments, we discussed everything: Me. You. Who would be invited to see me and you as we prepared to live life t...
Let’s unpack some myths and facts before we get into it. MYTH: All women want to be in a relationship. FACT: Not all women want to be in a relationship. MYTH: Women who don’t want to be i...
At the bottom of this post is my response for the last question of “Poppin’ Questions Podcast 35.” I bring this to your attention because it is where I repeat a phrase I wrote in my...
A reader asks… What happens when a man climaxes emotionally and pyscholgically? Here is my awkward answer To submit a question for consideration on a future episode of the Poppin’ Questio...
A man looks pathetic when he has an allergy attack. No man has ever gotten laid in the middle of an allergy attack. Every man thinks sex is a remedy to a woman’s cold. No man cares about gettin...
A reader asks… I’m 21 dating a 30-year-old. We get along amazingly, but we’re at a standstill because we’re questioning if a relationship is worth it. I’m still in schoo...
Let me clear a couple of things up before I get into the main point of today’s post. No I am not getting paid from the people behind Think Like A Man to write this post. Yes, we did run a conte...
The latest installment of Poppin’ Questions Podcast is now up on YouTube and Podomatic. STREAM/DOWNLOAD POPPIN’ QUESTIONS PODCAST 35 IN ITS ENTIRETY ON PODOMATIC UntilIGetMarried.Podomati...
Did any of you read this story yet? “The Downside To Cohabitation” I urge any of you interested in the topic to do so, especially those who are thinking about living with your significant...
All your life you said if ever you were lucky enough to just be in the same room as Tyra Banks, you would take your shot. That’s all you needed was proximity. When you used to have her poster u...
UPDATE: THANK YOU ALL FOR PARTICIPATING, THE CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED! The best job I ever had in college was working as the student newspaper’s Arts & Entertainment editor. The title gave me ...
Ever since H-Town said “listening to some Marvin Gaye all night long,” the legacy of Marvin Gaye’s music has been somewhat commercialized in ways that disgust me. “Let’s...
Most of you probably think this post is going to be about something wildly inappropriate. Too bad it’s not, you perverts. This is about eating actual food in front of a woman, and how a man sho...
So on this brand new edition of the Poppin’ Questions Podcast, I’m doing something a little bit different. Since some of you can’t listen to the podcast whether it be through Podoma...
The other day I wrote about five simple things men can do to turn women on. Nearly every woman who read it and responded said they agreed. They were like, “I mean, really, seriously guys, liste...
You gonna learn today. Assuming you care about such a thing I’m going to explain how you can be friends with the person you’re sleeping with. First: start off as non-friends. It’s j...
Guys, I don’t know if you know this but the bar to impress women has been lowered. The bar is so low we don’t even need to walk underneath it anymore. We can hop right over it. I don̵...
I showed up at his door drunk, in heels, a trench coat, and underneath, a brand new piece of lingerie I bought. And can you believe this fool wanted to just talk? — true story from a female friend. D...
No one ever tells you that about love. Folk say, “Protect yourself, protect your heart, be careful, don’t get hurt.” And that’s fine, necessary even, but someone needs to teac...
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