I am a 43-year-old woman who has never been married (although I would like to be). Over the past 25 years, I have had a number of relationships while living in the U.S. and abroad. In the great major...
I. Wish. I. Made. This. Video. But my inability to grow a full beard and my lack of molecule software would prevent mine from being as snazzy as this one. I really like this guy’s blend of hard...
As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I don’t talk about it much, but here’s my dirty little secret: I LOVE coaching men. 20% of my clients were men until 2010 and I have a completel...
Evan, I wanted to see if you had any tips about modifying my own behavior, because I’m driving myself (and a progression of men) at least a little batty. Reading your blog has been so useful to...
You know me pretty well at this point, but there are a few things you may not know. I think they’re relevant for you to get a clear picture of the guy who’s giving you dating advice: I had to ask thr...
I know you’ve spent a lot of time reading about other people’s bad dates and babies, so I wanted to get back to doing what I do best: giving powerful dating advice that will help you bett...
This post is a very special one, so I encourage you to read it in its entirety. By the end, I will share some very personal information with you and give you an opportunity to learn how to connect be...
Evan, I have spent the past 10 months with the greatest man. He had me from the start, but we took our time and moved slowly in order to build what I believe is deepest love I’ve ever known. We...
A reader of this blog shared a Huffington Post article with me last week. In it, author Sheryl Paul writes: “We live under a massive cultural delusion about the nature of real love. Propagated ...
It recently occurred to me that I have two types of clients: 1) Women who are their own greatest problem – too busy, too picky, too egotistical, too shy, too negative, too passive, etc. 2) Women who ...
After 9 years as a dating coach, there are times that I’m tempted to say that I’ve heard it all. But I’ll be the first to admit, I hadn’t heard anything until I asked you to submit your Worst Date Ev...
Hi Evan, I have been reading your blog for over a year now and I have also bought your book Why He Disappeared. I enjoy a lot of the advice and generally agree with most of it. You generally maintain...
Let’s just say that I would never make this video myself – it was passed to me by a follower on Facebook. But it’s fair to say that everything she says is exactly what NOT to do wit...
Did I ever tell you about the time I went out with a woman who declared herself “the best kisser in the world” and warned me that I would be unable to control myself around her? Did I ever tell you a...
I want you to tell me about the WORST date you’ve ever had. Not the one where he didn’t pay the full check or the one where he talked about himself for 90 minutes. I want you to tell me the funniest,...
Evan, I want an honest opinion on my predicament. I am in a year-long relationship and my boyfriend is a wonderful man. We have a strong connection and share a lot of values, views and interests. We&...
From the New York Times: “Nearly half of 20-somethings agreed with the statement, ‘You would only marry someone if he or she agreed to live together with you first, so that you could find...
This week, I was on the phone with a client who came to me eight weeks ago with no dating prospects whatsoever. But armed with a new perspective on dating, online dating, and understanding men (not t...
Hi Evan, I have been reading your blog for a while now, and am appreciative of the insights I’ve learned. I am working towards balancing a dating life while raising two amazing daughters. I hav...
If you read the comments on this blog regularly, you can probably draw some false conclusions about dating. Men are pigs. Men are liars. Men are flakes. Men are commitmentphobes. Men are selfish. Men...
You know I like to read, right? Well, I was reading Skeptic magazine last week when I ran across this paragraph, which blew my mind: “Sonja Lyubomrisky is a social psychologist who has compiled...
My boyfriend – who is over 60 – has had more dates than anyone I know and still receives notifications of women who have emailed him constantly. He has told me about some of them and stil...
You may have heard of Samantha Brick by now. Her article for the Daily Mail about how women hate her for her beauty has gone viral. Brick, 41, explains that she’s been given free drinks her who...
When you’re on the phone with women for 4 hours a day, you tend to hear a lot of recurring themes. One of the most prominent themes is a “high-class” problem; in other words, if you’re having this is...
Evan, I’ve tried going after guys I’m attracted to even if I don’t really know them. For instance, there was this guy in the gym. I guess I creeped him out. I don’t know why...
Nearly 40 percent of U.S. working wives now out-earn their husbands, and many believe they’ll soon make up a majority. Women hold more managerial and professional jobs, they earn more college d...
I’ve been getting into it recently with some readers who have a slightly different take on when people should get engaged. Hey, different strokes for different folks. One reader on my Facebook ...
Evan, My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and we have a very strong and healthy relationship. We have lots of fun together and we can always solve the problems that arise in our rela...
Upstairs by shawnwines Loved this. I have more embarrassing sex stories than anyone I know – but I can’t share them here due to the very public nature of this blog. But give me three drin...
I take my job as your personal trainer for love very seriously. I try to honor and respect every woman who reads my emails and offer advice that is honest but not too brutal. But I have to admit, fro...
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