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4 Ways to Distract Yourself From Him

The following post  was inspired by an email from a loyal reader!This is the article to read whenever youre tempted to call your ex, or text your unrequited crush, or facebook stalk a suggested ...

5 days ago 1 person likes this

The Mature Guy

How do you know if the guy youre into is really mature? On the surface, he seems like hes got it altogether, but something about him has been bothering you and your friends. Hes not pursuing you, but...

20 may 12

When No One Likes You: Part Two

Read Part One right HERE.Heres the latest:Its terrible when you see 11-year-olds calling each "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" and going out on dates, while youre a grown woman sitting at...

15 may 12 3 people like this

Not Fair To Leave You Hanging

IM SORRY!Z-note: Hi everybody. Its a been a while since my last blog post. One of my readers recently pointed out to me that it isnt fair to leave you guys hanging when I disappear with no explanatio...

12 may 12 1 person likes this

Hes Not Your Type?

Z-Note: Hi readers/visitors. I have a question for you. What do you mean when you say, "Hes not my type?". In a lot of your emails and comments to me, I see that phrase--but directl...

02 apr 12

So I Forced Myself To Like Him?

Heres the latest:Sometimes, we force ourselves to like a guy. We actually place all the pressures and the expectations on ourselves. And for what? It can be extremely confusing. Lets try to figure it...

01 apr 12

Dear Zabrinah: Hes Hot & Cold

Heres the latest:Hes nice to you one day. Hes mean to you the next. You never know what youre going to get with him. How do you behave  when this guy is hot and cold? If you havent read&nbs...

22 mar 12

When Everyone Goes "OOOOOOOO! 4;

This post is basically a sequel to People (click HERE). Dont you hate when everybody makes a big deal out of something thats not even worth mentioning? Youre trying to guard your heart. Youre tr...

13 mar 12

Learn How To Take A Compliment

Nothing shows insecurity MORE than a person who cant take a compliment. I honestly get fed up with my friends who refuse to accept my genuine opinions of them. I have to admit that Im an avid giver o...

11 mar 12 2 people like this

Find A Support System

Also read CAN GUYS AND GIRLS BE FRIENDS? (CLICK ME) Are you one of those girls who only has guy friends? There are no females to bounce your ideas off of. No women to trust and spend quality tim...

07 mar 12

Why Are You So Empty Inside?

You are a vase. There may be one, two, or ten flowers resting inside of you. But, you are thirsty. There is no water in your vase. And youre looking in ALL the wrong places for nourishment. Why?Why a...

04 mar 12 2 people like this

Guest Post: How To Be A Matchmaker

Z-Note: Hey, everybody. This is a GUEST POST written by ELLIE MOON. I only made the little cartoon. Read her bio at the end of this article! And please enjoy!WRITTEN BY ...

29 feb 12

Play With Fire & You Do Get BURNED

This article is especially directed to those of you who are Not Ready, But Open (click ME).Ill admit it. When it comes to romantic relationships, you can embarrass the living crap out of yourself if ...

26 feb 12

My Interview With Natalie Lue of Baggage Reclaim

I had the pleasure of interviewing Natalie Lue of Baggage Reclaim. This interview is FILLED with GEMS of dating advice from someone who has helped thousands. So, sit back, read and enjoy!Z: On your&n...

24 feb 12

Men Dont Want To Be Alone

I just wanted to give you the answer to some of your most burning questions. Why does he do this? Why does he do that? Perhaps theres a single answer to learn from today: Why does he show you af...

21 feb 12 1 person likes this

Applying Things That Have Nothing To Do With Your Situation And Placing Them Into Your Situation So...

Weve all done it. Weve seen people with real relationship problems and projected those into our own lives. The only problem is, your relationship (which is mostly in your head, by the way--click ME) ...

19 feb 12

Addicted To Love

Are you addicted to love? Do you look for it in all the wrong places? Do you get caught up in mind games with men who arent even remotely interested in you? Yes? Unfortunately, you might be a love ad...

18 feb 12 1 person likes this

Stop Looking For Love?

This might be the deepest thing Ive ever heard:"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."--Jalal ad-Din ...

17 feb 12 1 person likes this

Are You Ready For A Boyfriend?

How do you know when the time is right? Though current society and the media tend to portray boyfriends as "not a big deal", they kind of are. We take singleness for granted. But, even if you...

14 feb 12

Can Love Like This Exist?

Heres the latest:First of all, I love Jane Eyre. She is a good role model for people who want to look up to a character who went through tremendous adversity and still came out on top. Good for her.I...

12 feb 12

A Guy Who Doesnt Treat You Right

Read 11 Ways to Gain Respect From Guys (click ME) first.Ive received a lot of emails about guys who are treating you horribly. I understand. This happens to me, too. In most of these cases, we c...

10 feb 12

Like Him, But Not In Love With Him

Have you ever found yourself totally in love with someone you had recently only liked? And there was no transition from one phase to the other? It was suddenly: "BOOM! Im in love with him.&#...

07 feb 12

My Interview With Hot Alpha Female

Recently, I caught up with Jennifer, a.k.a. Hot Alpha Female.She let me know about the creation of her dating/relationships blog and some of the philosophies behind it.Z: Your "About Me"...

06 feb 12

How Do I Approach Him?

If youve read Dominant Energy (click ME), you know that I perceive "pursuing a guy" to be one of the key ways to mortify yourself or end up with a broken heart. You also know that its a prett...

05 feb 12

My Interview With The Single Filez Blogger

It is my pleasure to introduce the first interview in a series of bloggers who write about dating and relationships.Starting us off is The Single Filez.The Single Filez is a blogger from London who w...

02 feb 12

Words of the Wise-Interviews With Other Dating & Relationship Bloggers

Z-Note: If youre familiar with this blog, you know that Im always coming up with creative series and ideas as incentive to keep me posting!Dont believe me? Check out:The September "Whats You...

01 feb 12

"Hot Girl" Time

Want to know what guys are thinking? Do you really? Well, a guy just told me about "Hot Girl Time". Im starting to think its a common phrase around males. Apparently ... Hot Girls live i...

01 feb 12

Hang Up Your Jersey!

Heres the latest:What have you done lately that shows your still playing "the game"--even from the sidelines? We have to consider if we even want a guy that only likes us when were calculatin...

30 jan 12

Proof That Love Is A COMMITMENT

Hi, everyone!Remember my post, "Love Can Be Learned Too?" Click HERE to read it. It was based on an a quote in an email I received from one of you. :)Heres another: I love it!“Although feelin...

29 jan 12 1 person likes this

Facebook Etiquette

Heres the latest:So, you know you shouldnt pursue him--with all your might--in real life. We all get why (click ME if you dont). But, what about the virtual world? Is there such a thing as Faceb...

27 jan 12

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