What Should I Write About?

Hey all! Just checking in! Take this poll to let me know how to best serve your interests with this blog. I want my observations and experiences to be resources for you! So please, take the poll...

What Happens When You Watch The Oscars

Here's a funny story for you. Last month, I was watching the Oscars with one of my friends. And we got really excited when the movie cast of Les Miserables was about to perform. I had seen the...

How To Be A Level 1

Z-Note: Hey people! This post refers to one of the levels on the "How Much I Like A Guy Meter" (click HERE). Here's a comment that was left on that post: "I'm a level 4... with some characteristics...

Flirting Just For Fun

Have you ever flirted with someone "just for fun"? Have you ever accidentally led someone on? All of a sudden, the roles are switched. You watch him climb from a Level 1 to a Level 3. You see The...

Oh Yes, He WILL Pursue!

Z-Note: Hey everybody! If you were subscribed to my newsletter (which no longer exists because it was really expensive), then you may recognize this post. If not, it's a new one for you. Enjoy!...

Testimonials #4

Z-Note: I really appreciate it when people take the time to reassure me that I'm not crazy and my observations & experiences with guys make sense to other people. Thank you! Thank you! Here's an...

Why Are You Ignoring Me?

Z-Note: Hello people! Here's the latest email. To better understand this post, you may want to read How To Let Go Of The Guy (click HERE) because it is referred to in the following letter. Please...

The Mold Crush: Part Two

Z-Note: Hey everybody! If you were subscribed to my short-lived newsletter (the upkeep was really expensive!), then you may recognize this post. If not, it's a new one for you. Enjoy! Hopefully,...

The Undercover Pimp: Part Three

Z-Note: Hello people! Here's the latest email. To better understand this post, you may want to read The Undercover Pimp (click ME) and The Undercover Pimp: Part Two (click ME). Please enjoy my...

The Creepy Guy

Z-Note: I was affected by Hurricane Sandy. I had no power for almost a week. But I'm back! Here's the latest email. Please enjoy my annotations in red: What do you do when a creepy guy just won't...

Why Has Nothing Happened?

Z-Note: Hello people! Here's the latest email. Please enjoy my annotations in red: He's initiating. He's texting you non-stop. You have amazing conversations together. Everything's great except for...

Dear Zabrinah: Relapse

Z-Note: Hi everyone! Here's the latest email. It covers an issue most of us know too well. Please enjoy my annotations in red: Have you ever felt like you were in a "vicious cycle" you just...

Guest Post: Are You With A Married Man?

Z-Note: This is a GUEST POST, written by a lovely person named Catie Keeler. I did not write it. I only provided the cartoon picture! Signs That He Might Be Married Or Taken Dating can be like...

My Book Is Now Available On Amazon

Z-Note: Hey, everyone! My e-book, I KICKED HIM IN THE CROTCH:The Untold Story of Zabrinah Shepherd is now available on Amazon! Click HERE to read the Preface and learn more about it! The book,...

If You're In Denial About Liking Him...

Have you ever picked up the phone to call your friend and complain about a guy friend you didn't have a crush on? You just had to explain all the reasons why he has been bothering you lately. Maybe...

Where In The World Is Zabrinah Shepherd?

Z-Note: Hello, everyone. Guess what? I'm back. :P I'M SORRY SO..... WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU? Remember that computer game "Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego?" It was kind of like, "Where's Waldo?"...

I Want A Relationship NOW!

Z-Note: Hi everybody! Here's the latest: Hey Zabrinah, I'm a fairly new follower of your blog, but there's something that I've been wondering about. I'm twenty and single, and have been pretty...

The Truth About One-Sided Relationships

Z-Note: Stay tuned for another exclusive email from my free newsletter (sign-up is to the right), in which I discuss mold crushes (click HERE) in further detail. This newsletter is scheduled to go...

GUEST POST: The Married Guy

Z-Note: This is a GUEST POST, written by Melissa Messer of The Dating Website I did not write it. I only made the little cartoon.Here’s something you probably already know: falling in love with a...

How To Get A Boyfriend

I bet you NEVER thought I'd write a post about this ...Especially after reading, Signs He Likes You (click HERE) and The Survival Guide To Attraction (click HERE). But I've found something truly...

It Matters How You Talk To Them

Z-Note: Here's a letter I received from a reader: Dear Zabrinah, I'm learning that it really matters how you talk to all guys, even the ones that you aren't interested in. As women, we can feel the...

You Deserve More : Part Two--"I Don't Always Understand My Worth"

Sign up for the FREE newsletter! Readers who signed up received the preface and first chapter of my ebook: I KICKED HIM IN THE CROTCH: The Untold Zabrinah Shepherd Story. ===> Chances are, you...

You Deserve More

Testimonials #3

Z-Note: Hi people! I just wanted to share another testimonial with you all! This one was from a reader on facebook!Thank you so much for your blog. Im 22 and going through a break up and your posts...

It Should Freak You Out!

Its weird that I have to say it, but someone had to tell me once. Remember the post, What Starts Quickly, Ends Quickly (click ME)? Sometimes, we find ourselves looking into his eyes and sharing the...

Desperation Can Be Detected From Miles Away

Z-Note: NOTICE THE NEWSLETTER SIGN UP TO THE RIGHT. FREE. It only requires your name and email! Sign up for Zabrinah goodness ===> Im slowly learning that desperation is worse than bad breath. Its...

GUEST POST: Resist With All Your Heart

Z-Note: This is a GUEST POST, written by Tonya Vrba of onlinedatingsites.net. I did not write it.Author Bio: Tonya Vrba is a passionate writer. Her work has been published in newspapers and...

Friend me! Its My Birthday!

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The Problem With Video Game Boyfriends

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7 Compelling Reasons Why You Should Donate!

Z-Note: If this post offends you in anyway, please dont read it. But, you will miss out on some information about the book I just wrote for my readers!7 Compelling Reasons Why You Should...