Sex and the Fat Girl

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Plump Polish: Get Me All Over Your Fingers

Check it out, y’all, my name is immortalized in nail polish by Plump, a nail polish line manufactured by the lovely Margitte and Kyla. You may know them from their work on “The Internet”. It’s a...

May 1, 2013 Like

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Sex and the Fat Girl: Basking in the Afterglow

This column has come to an end! I hope what we discussed helped you learn to love yourself a bit more. And, of course, I hope it made you think a bit and challenge assumptions about fat sexuality...

May 6, 2011 Like

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Listen To Me Talk Sexy to You

Have you ever wondered how I sound when I talk about sex? Ever wanted to ask me to elaborate on any of the articles I’ve written? Well, this Saturday, February 9, 2013, at 3 PM Eastern time, I’m...

Feb 8, 2013 Like

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The Only Skins You Ever Hit Was the Skins on Your Right Hand

So. I’ve been spending a lot of time on Twitter lately. Before I get into this, I will go ahead and say that this rant is specifically targeted at straight cis men. Let me also say that I am all...

Jan 28, 2013 Like 1 person likes this

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This Motion Has Got Me Wet Like Crazy: 90s Slow Jams

My sexual coming-of-age took place in the 90s, the decade in which I spent the entirety of my teenage years. It was a time when blatantly sexual R&B/slow jams were really coming into their prime,...

Nov 23, 2012 Like

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Super Mario [Badescu] World

When I hit 30 I got excited because I thought for sure my oily skin would dry up and any pimples would be few and far between. Aging brings wrinkles, but the trade-off for that is dry yet clear...

Aug 12, 2012 Like

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The Intersection of Greatness and Race, or Why The Hell is NBC Such a Dick to Our Own Athletes?

When I was a kid I would watch the winter and summer Olympics with rapt attention every 4 years, religiously. Then I got married and stopped, I think because my ex-husband wasn’t into sports so I...

Aug 4, 2012 Like

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It’s My Blog and I’ll Do Fluff If I Want To

I keep trying to incorporate the title sentiment into a long post explaining where I am in my life and how that’s affecting what direction I’m wanting to go in with this blog. The Cliffs’ Notes...

Jul 31, 2012 Like

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About that vulnerability thing & needing community…

I’m coming to y’all for some help, as I have before & you’ve been so generous to provide. I know I haven’t been writing much (at all) lately, and that’s because I’m still not really in a great...

Jul 4, 2012 Like

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Guts & Glory

Being raw and emotionally vulnerable in public is not something I’m very comfortable with. Talking loudly about sex acts, bodily fluids and consuming large quantities of cake products in public...

Apr 23, 2012 Like

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There is a widespread belief in Western culture that it is necessary to police the health of every fat person. Judgments are made about the state of the inside of fat bodies based on the appearance...

Sep 21, 2011 Like

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When You Really Need Your Community

Over the past few days I’ve been running a ChipIn campaign. I’ll quote the page here: Help a Financially Screwed Woman of Color with Mental Illness Survive for a Bit My name is Tasha Fierce, and...

Aug 10, 2011 Like

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When Fat Chicks Give Better Head

I did a post on Bitch called “Unicorns, Better Head and Other Myths” in which I briefly brought up the commonly-held belief that fat girls are better at blowjobs. Namely because they have such low...

May 23, 2011 Like

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The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy: Take a Trip to the Toy Store

One of my suggestions to fat girls who want to learn to love their bodies is to learn to love your body. By which I mean, get intimate with yourself, explore what feels good to your individual body...

May 7, 2011 Like

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On Bitch Magazine: Interview With “Fat Bitch!” Creator Erica Watson

I had the pleasure of attending the April 30 performance of Erica Watson’s “Fat Bitch!” The show incisively cut through the societal baggage attached to being a fat woman using humor (hilariously!)...

May 4, 2011 Like

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Win Tickets to Erica Watson’s “Fat Bitch!” in Los Angeles on April 29, 30 or May 1st

I apologize for my extended absence, everyone! As usual, I’ve been dealing with personal drama so it hasn’t afforded me the time to write here. But I am over at Bitch Magazine doing the Sex and the...

Apr 25, 2011 Like

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Tell Me Your Secrets and I’ll Tell You Mine

So, I thought it might be fun if I set up a Formspring account you can use to ask me anonymous questions about anything relating to sex, body image, dating, relationships, sexuality, fat, fat sex,...

Feb 21, 2011 Like

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If You’ve Been Caught Slippin’…

Dating and relationships and all the messy emotions that come with it/them are a pain in the ass. Falling in love, while it feels good when it’s good, really ends up sucking when things don’t work...

Feb 16, 2011 Like

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Take Off Your Clothes and Leave On Your Shoes

Even if you love your body, it can be intimidating to be completely naked in front of someone for the first time (or even the 20th time). One reason why I like wearing lingerie is actually because...

Feb 11, 2011 Like

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When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong: Why Settle?

Being fat girls, we’re often told that we need to just “take what you can get” in the field of dating. We’re supposed to have low self-esteem and jump on anything that sniffs around us. You know...

Feb 3, 2011 Like

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The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy: Underneath it All

Okay, let me first clarify: I’m not saying that in order to be sexy, you have to wear/do any of this. This is for those fat girls out there who, like me, find the whole process of “primping”...

Feb 1, 2011 Like

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The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy: Inner Beauty (Part One)

I’m starting this series called “The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy” to help other fat girls learn to see themselves as sexy. If you already have that down, hopefully the tips I give you can help...

Jan 31, 2011 Like

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3 New Year’s (Relationship) Resolutions I Intend to Keep

Another trip around the sun, and I find myself in a new relationship after finally giving the death blow to one that spanned a decade. I definitely don’t want to make the same mistakes twice, so I...

Jan 2, 2011 Like

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Why ‘You Complete Me’ is Bullshit and How I Learned to Complete Myself

It’s a common belief that there’s someone out there just for you, and when you find him or her, you’ll find the person that makes you whole. I held that belief my entire life, and I searched...

Dec 28, 2010 Like

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Is Sexual Fidelity the Most Important Part of a Relationship? Thoughts on Non-monogamy

Recently a new sex partner asked for my advice on how to deal with three women he was “seeing,” each of whom was interested in having a monogamous relationship with him. Being as how we had just...

Dec 14, 2010 Like

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Sex and the Fat Girl

Plump Polish: Get Me All Over Your Fingers

Sex and the Fat Girl: Basking in the Afterglow

Listen To Me Talk Sexy to You

The Only Skins You Ever Hit Was the Skins on Your Right Hand

This Motion Has Got Me Wet Like Crazy: 90s Slow Jams

Super Mario [Badescu] World

The Intersection of Greatness and Race, or Why The Hell is NBC Such a Dick to Our Own Athletes?

It’s My Blog and I’ll Do Fluff If I Want To

About that vulnerability thing & needing community…

Guts & Glory

In Defense of Fat

When You Really Need Your Community

When Fat Chicks Give Better Head

The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy: Take a Trip to the Toy Store

On Bitch Magazine: Interview With “Fat Bitch!” Creator Erica Watson

Win Tickets to Erica Watson’s “Fat Bitch!” in Los Angeles on April 29, 30 or May 1st

Tell Me Your Secrets and I’ll Tell You Mine

If You’ve Been Caught Slippin’…

Take Off Your Clothes and Leave On Your Shoes

When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong: Why Settle?

The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy: Underneath it All

The Fat Girl’s Guide to Feeling Sexy: Inner Beauty (Part One)

3 New Year’s (Relationship) Resolutions I Intend to Keep

Why ‘You Complete Me’ is Bullshit and How I Learned to Complete Myself

Is Sexual Fidelity the Most Important Part of a Relationship? Thoughts on Non-monogamy

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