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Wherein I Reveal Everything About What I’m Thinking About Creating

We sat in a small cafe wedged between lush forests & bustling cyclists. She nibbled on a scone, I sipped a cup of Earl Grey. With slight sadness, she told me she didn’t have anyone to speak...

1 day ago

Reader Question: Sexual Frigidity & “Pushing His Hands Away”

{via} (Note: Occasionally, I get a question from a reader that is compelling enough to become its own article. This is one of those questions.) “Dear Ev`Yan, I have never had an orgasm with a g...

25 may 12

Sex in Public: “I can’t have an orgasm with my husband.”

{via, with my modifications} Six months ago, I cheated on my husband of nearly ten years. I cheated on him with a woman. It happened once. This affair was my first experience sleeping with a woman. I...

18 may 12

Things You’re Doing to Exhibit Self-Love… & You Don’t Even Know it

+ getting waxed + doctor’s checkups & pap smears + cat naps + making love / fucking + journaling + eating leafy greens & organic foods + slathering lotion on your body + buying new unde...

15 may 12

Ask For What it is You Want

Your lover can’t read your mind. The waitress at your favorite cafe can’t read your mind. Your dearest, most closest friend whom you’ve known since kindergarten can’t, either....

08 may 12 1 person likes this

Let’s Talk Sex, Love, & Liberation; a FREE, live, sultry event.

[ETA: You can watch the recording of this event by clicking here.] You’re invited. . . Your presence is humbly & happily requested at SLL’s first live, FREE event. It’s happenin...

02 may 12

Sex in Public: “I’m cynical about love.”

{via, with my modifications} Since childhood the word “love” has borne a satirical, false impression in my mind. I’ve never really been heartbroken—I’ve never really been in love—and yet that word, l...

26 apr 12 1 person likes this

Sex is Joy & Easy Like Sunday Morning

(Note: Anytime I use the word “sex” in this article, I’m using it as an all encompassing word.) I sometimes think we take sex too seriously (myself included). This is rather easy to...

18 apr 12

Q: What is One Thing You Simply Will Not Do Sexually?

{via} Occasionally, I’ll ask you a bold question & invite you to divulge your thoughts in the comment section. Today’s burning question: What’s one thing you simply will not do ...

12 apr 12

Making Love & Fucking: A Love Poem

When I think of making love. . . I think of airy lightness, like a dandelion plume floating carelessly in a gentle, warm breeze. Bodies feel like they’re floating above sheets, with skin like w...

10 apr 12

Queer Women of Color, Sexy Sex Language, & Vintage Porn (a few of my favorite things)

{via} Here’s a short & sweet list of things that tickled my fancy (& nether regions) this week. . . The Peculiar Kind From its site, The Peculiar Kind is described as “a web serie...

30 mar 12

Non-Monogamy & My New Marriage: What I Learned (& Where I Stand)

(Note: This is the third installment in my non-monogamy series. Read the first & second.) I sat curled onto Jonathan’s lap, tears clouding my vision as waves of emotion washed over me. I co...

27 mar 12

Non-Monogamy & My New Marriage: A Date

(Note: This is the second installment in my non-monogamy series. Read the first.) I came home with a stupid smile on my face, a bag of groceries hanging from one shoulder. Jonathan greeted me with be...

21 mar 12

Non-Monogamy & My New Marriage: An Experiment

We started playing with the idea of seeing people outside of our relationship last year. It followed directly after I came out. We decided mutually that non-monogamy was something worth exploring, si...

19 mar 12

Sex in Public: “I’m an orgasmic virgin.”

{via, with my modifications} I am a 23-year-old virgin and I plan to stay that way until I get married. A lot of people make fun of virgins or find them repulsive. The media especially frowns down up...

15 mar 12

Vagina & Vulva: A Short & Sweet Guide (you’re likely using the wrong word)

Vagina is a sex organ, its passage leads to your womb space. Vulva is the temple that surrounds your sex, protecting it, keeping its secrets. Vagina is Latin for sheath. Vulva is Latin for vulva, als...

12 mar 12

The Dark Side of Pornography & the Price of Pleasure

Sex, Love, Liberation was created under the launch of Lady Porn Day, a week dedicated to heal the shame & unearth the curiosities surrounding women & pornography. Around this time last year, ...

28 feb 12

Sex in Public: “I videotaped myself having sex.”

{via, with my modifications} Last night I sat entwined with my lover, watching a 28 minute recording of us having sex. It was amazing. I felt like the gods let me peek through the curtain at things o...

23 feb 12

It’s Okay if You’re Not Horny All the Time

After I hit a period of sexlessness in my relationship, I read any book I could that would help diagnose & nurse my dysfunction. And these books were quite helpful. They told me to step outside o...

21 feb 12

My Philosophy on Love & Relationships

The severing of love runs rampant in our world. Irreconcilable differences. Conflicts of interest. Petty disagreements. It can be said that such failed unions were doomed from the start. But every re...

14 feb 12

The Key to Succulent Sex: Go Out of Your Mind

I’ve spent most of my erotic life in the chains of a restless brain. Throughout the passionate act of sex, my mind traveled through hypothetical situations & trivial thoughts. My half-finis...

06 feb 12

Sex in Public: “I did a nude photoshoot.”

{via, with my modifications} I love to honor my body. Its beautiful, creamy chocolate complexion, slightly round belly, storytelling scars, and story-holding vagina remind me of my greatness. In the ...

02 feb 12

An Infallible Test to Help You Dissolve Unworthiness

The following is a passage from the book Radical Acceptance, by Tara Brach. I’m sharing this with you today because it is rich with truth & it will surely help you on your journey to total ...

30 jan 12 1 person likes this

Reader Question: Self-Love & Body Image

{via} (Note: Occasionally, I get a question from a reader that is compelling enough to become an article all its own. This is one of those questions.) “Hi Ev`Yan, What is your view on working o...

27 jan 12 2 people like this

Sex in Public: “I am more than my pussy.”

{via, with my modifications} My body is mine. I shared it with you, as you shared yours with me. We started out as friends, you and I. And we were good friends. You were dysfunctionally married, I wa...

24 jan 12

The Art of Orgasmic Meditation: pt. ii

(Note: This is a follow-up to this post.) The first time I OMed, I was hyper aware of the sunlight filtering in through the windows of the bedroom. It seemed to be beaming directly onto the space bet...

19 jan 12

The Art of Orgasmic Meditation: pt. i

It all started with a series of featherlight strokes. And a willingness to try something new. But before that, it was all up-in-the-air curiosity. And doubt. And a gnawing desire for something more. ...

17 jan 12

If You Want to Become More Sexual…

When I first met my husband, I stood in awe of the shameless expression of his sexuality. It surpassed his innate ability to confidently act on his desires; he was deeply connected to his sexual spir...

09 jan 12

Best of 2011

One crazy book launch. An abundance of kind words. A gang of interviews & collaborations. And that’s only the tip of the iceberg. Here’s a tiny recap of effervescent 2011.   The ...

22 dec 11

Orgasms Are Good for Your Health (& Practice Makes Perfect)

Here’s some food for thought: Orgasms are vital to your existence. Dr. Sara Gottfried believes that we are in the midst of an epidemic of low vitality in our culture, & because of this we n...

20 dec 11 1 person likes this

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