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Recently I was invited to my friend Mike’s birthday celebration. He decided that he wanted to relive his childhood. For him that meant renting a soccer field at the local sports complex. For...
As we try to maneuver through this dangerous sport we call dating, we all create rules for ourselves. Rules that help us define the guys we will date. Rules that help us to know when is the...
After my recent dabble into domestication I was determined to start actually dating again. And I don’t mean the kind of dating that happens from a gentlemen’s socializing network – you know the...
I mean, look at all the cat ladies of the world. Much like those feline lovin’ females, I found myself taking in a stray. No, not a pussy – I’m allergic. I took in boy. Philip, my ex-crush and...
Last year I was approached by a graduate student from Columbia University. He wanted to do his master’s thesis project on me and my blog. I through caution to the wind and say, what the hell! It is...
Just like Lucy, I guess I have some ‘splainin to do. Where have I been? Oh, I have been around. My day job had me quite busy and that left me no time to date, “date” or even think … Continue reading →
It is too darn hot to even try. Here’s a picture for you: In weather like this, all I want to do is lay on my couch in my underwear with my air conditioner on high with an industrial strength fan …...
Ah, the First. No, I am not referring to the final foe of Ms. Buffy Summers. Even though this particular First can cause as much carnage and mayhem as The First Evil, I am referring to the First...
As I re-entered the world of singledom, after the South African, some things became disturbingly clear I realized that I have a post break-up habit. Some people get a drastic hair cut. Some people...
After the lackluster first sexual encounter with Martin, I was determined that it would indeed get better. After all, we are both attractive men in our mid 30s and we like each other, so there is...
Even though after Martin returned from his mini trip to Montreal and squashed most of the craziness that was circling around in my brain, we were still having a hard time getting together. And by...
“Nearly everybody gets twitterpated in the springtime. For example: You’re walking along, minding your own business. You’re looking neither to the left, nor to the right, when all of a sudden you...
They say that spring is the time for lov. It’s rapidly approaching and I have been frustrated with my dating landscape, so I decided to have a little fun on OkCupid For those out there that don’t...
I am not always the good guy. I am not always the guy who, because of being HIV-positive, looses out in love. Sometimes, just sometimes, I find myself in the role of the bad guy. And when that...
Ever notice how most New Yorkers (and yes, I consider myself one even though I have only been a resident in this great city for less than two years), do their best to avoid Times Square? If we must...
It was a bust. Not the type of bust that gay men are oddly attracted to, but rather, my efforts to proclaim my affection for Philip.Unfortunately for me, that was not the only thing that was a...
Courage is something that did not come in my genetic make-up. Don’t get me wrong; when push comes to shove I can become quite protective and stand-up for myself. I did manage to defend myself when...
Online dating is tricky. One might even say it is akin to going on a blind date. At least with the latter you are being set up by friends who hopefully have your best interests at heart and not by...
I knew better than to expect much in the way of romance after a text I got from my recent lunch date: I am horny for your [body part] again. But as the week progressed I started to wonder… …...
I have the problem of never doing anything half assed. I usually tend to jump in with both feet without concern of any consequences. Sometimes this can be quite beneficial and sometimes…well, let’s...
I am a prude. It’s true, I am. No, seriously. I do believe in free love and make use of that freedom as much as I can, but I do it very prudishly. I have never been one for public … Continue reading →
So I have been dateless for about a month now. Shocking! What is even more shocking than that, is it has been by choice. I know, I know, a month isn’t that long, but because of my past year, a …...
On September 20th I had the great fortune to attend the unveiling of David Bromstad’s new mural for Positivelite.com at The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center in New York City....
After my trip to Provincetown, I decided to send Dr. Perfect Hair a text. He wouldn’t have given me his number if he didn’t want me to contact him, right? The text was witty and pithy but I could...
I don’t know how he does it. When I woke up this morning there was this insanely handsome, six foot three man lying nude in my bed. With perfect hair. Seriously with perfect hair. How does that...
Natural Disasters All! Disclaimer: This is not about boys, sex, or looking for either. I am sorry to disappoint anyone. This is about vanity – pure and simple. We all fall victim to vanity from...
Sitting on my couch, incapacitated by a summer cold and watching more Jane Austen than any gay can handle, I received a couple text messages from Asher “How are you?” “We should hang out again....
For the past week and a half, I have been out of commission. No dates. No nothing. Before your imagination runs wild, it’s not because I found creepy crawlers in my nether regions… And no, I didn’t...
As I venture out into the world of dating, I would like to reiterate the very first line that I’d written: Dating is hard! Outside of the actual act of dating, which comes with its own set of...
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