This is not a real post. It’s not exactly, all in your imagination either. It’s more of an extended status update masquerading as a blog post. Have I lost anyone yet?? Yes? Sorry … It’s just been one...
Dear Sasha, erm, I don’t even know how to start all this and I really don’t know why I’m writing to you either but…maybe it’s because I don’t like to talk to peopl...
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai It’s the Bridget Jones moment all over again when you walk into a room full of happy couples and have to sit on the end of the table. You can’t call it the head of the table...
Hey Sasha, I need some advice and was hoping you could help. Here’s a little of my background… I’m a 21 year old college student from a small town in Texas (conservative ass town with practically no ...
Sasha, I had to write because I can’t explain how much a part of your blog has helped me. The “Bipolar Sasha” blogs have literally helped save my relationship. See, my girlfriend al...
By Guest Writer, WWG This past week, three different celebrities – Jillian Michaels, Anne Burrell and Jim Parsons – came out. Or, more so, they acknowledged what was already highly specul...
By Guest Writer, ButchKitty Maybe I should really call this “A Lesbians Journey to shut the damn voice up in her head”!! I know I’m gay, it’s as plain as the nose on my face b...
I found this picture online a while ago and was so struck by it, I just saved it. Of course, the first thing I thought was, “Damn, she’s hot.” But then, my brain actually all...
By Guest Writer, K So for those who don’t know J and I recently celebrated our three year anniversary. There was a huge issue over it because it fell in Mother’s Day. A day in which incid...
Or at least my jewelry line is!!!!! Imagine my excitement when I received an email tonight with a tearsheet attached of one of my DYKE rings (#6) in a write up about fashion forward accessories to we...
Hey Sasha, I have a question for your readers. I’m having a moral dilemma of sorts. Do you think it’s alright to date two women at once? I’ve never been in this position before and ...
Long Beach Pride is this weekend!!!! And I wanted to give everyone a little run down on where to go and what to do! Starting tonight there is a a drag show at Hamburger Mary’s! The Dream...
By Guest Writer, ButchKitty So, as many close friends know, I have been discovering myself lately. I’m almost 100% sure I’m gay, but all I’ve done with a girl is kiss. I have been w...
A few days ago, a Facebook friend asked if she could write on CCL. I asked her to send me a writing sample and I’d get back to her. Today I read her first submission and thought to mysel...
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Ah summer is starting to hit England and by this I mean it’s warm enough to only wear one jumper, people are getting into their happy places. And as soon as the sun starts t...
By Guest Writer, WWG She wasn’t my type in the least. It was a business meeting, informal, but still for the purpose of business. My eyes, therefore, were meant to stay at hers. But her top? We...
By Guest Writer, Sarah M. Now, that I am single and spending so much time alone in the bedroom. My fantasies have exploded at a higher rate than normal!! There’s one that has been pretty consis...
By Guest Writer, Elegy So as I mentioned earlier I have been in a bit of a funk, and as a result of that I slipped down the Hill of Shame; I stopped eating – I’m a depression induced sta...
By Guest Writer, Sarah M. As a lot of you know by now, Raye and I have broken up. I’ve mentioned before that I don’t go too much into my personal life on these blogs. Y̵...
A close friend of ours asked me if I took requests. Do I take requests?? Honey puh-leez! I’m all about pleasing Her question to me was actually more for the femmes in the audience. She kindly asks, “...
By Guest Writer, RadDyke I seem to be on a label kick these days: writing about them, thinking about them… and discarding them. My recent realization: I hate the label “gay” for mys...
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Being single can be great. You can go out whenever you want without having to ‘check’ with someone first. You can kiss a gorgeous stranger without having to check if it’s ok...
I am SO excited, honored and proud to share this video with everyone. I had to talk her into letting me share it, but after you start watching it, you will understand why I was willing to literally b...
For those of you who don’t know, when you have a blog you get notified of incoming links. Which is simply, anytime another website, links to yours. I usually overlook them, which is why they’ve piled...
I am obsessed with the TV show 1 Girl 5 Gays! Does anyone else watch this?! Remi and I record it to watch in the morning over coffee because we are so intrigued with gay boy culture. Or should...
While CCL was getting redesigned, I received an email from someone who wanted to be a guest writer on here. I get those pretty often and if the email itself doesn’t catch my attention, t...
One night stands in the lesbian world aren’t the same thing as a one night stand in the straight world. My straight girlfriends insist that oral sex is not actually sex. But if it’...
With the revamping of CCL, I realized that a spring cleaning was in order. So I went through my blog roll determined to clean it out and make room for some new blogs. My criteria for kicking someone ...
Up till now, my featured artists have all been of the lesbian persuasion. But recently was lucky enough to get to know this amazing couple through my jewelry line. Fate has an amazing way of bringing...
There really is something to be said about taking lemons and making lemonade. Or in this case, taking a crashed site and revamping it to take it to the next level. I am so excited and happy that it’s...
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