I recently wrote a post for The Frisky about sex positivity– it was a sort of check-list– “Are you sex positive? Here are 8 ways to be sure!” Essentially these were lessons I&...
For Jezebel, I looked into the christian sex industry. Could christian porn ever exist? I’m not convinced otherwise. If you type “Christian porn” into Google, you get about 75 milli...
I wrote a piece for the New York Observer about couples who are living with roommates. Which is hard, but also has some strange benefits. Some excerpts: Browsing Craigslist for single-room listings t...
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In science there is a constant debate over whether or not the G-spot orgasm actually exists. Think of it as a vaginal witch-hunt. I know, science can send a particle faster than the speed of light bu...
50 Shades of Gray is truly the gift to sex writers that never stops giving us time-pegs. Weeks ago for TheFrisky I wrote a guide to dipping your perfectly manicured (not-at-all-creepy) toe into the w...
Oh hiiii. So, okay, I am writing over at Jezebel! Here are some things I’ve written so far, which you should definitely click on and read and enjoy: Phone Sex still Exists? And people still mak...
Photog unknown– if you know, let me know! So, I got “erotically hypnotized” and wrote a story about it for The New York Observer. The story is in the paper (on news stands now) and ...
photo by emerald-ginger on Flickr I want to talk about the age of consent. Does it have gray areas? I recently saw a new documentary called Are All Men Pedophiles? which is making the rounds at film ...
photo: unknown This is an excerpt from a recent interview I did with marriage historian, Stephanie Coontz. Coontz is the author of the book Marriage, a History and here she is talking about how peopl...
This is an excerpt from an interview for a feature story I am working on. All I want to say about that story is it follows couples living in unconventional ways. But here, I am talking to Soraya and ...
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The other day I looked up from my laptop at a coffee shop and saw that everyone was bent over a screen. I wondered what someone from 1971 would think about this “1984″ business. Each day ...
I was at bar in Manhattan for a magazine-networking party. The place was decorated for Christmas and crowded with name-tags that read “Elle” or “Marie Claire”. After ordering a glass of white wine (I...
On g-chat, a friend sends me a link to a YouTube video called, “Can men and women just be friends?” I roll my eyes. I hate that question. It is heteronormative and sexist, and yet I click anyway. The...
The front half of Reverend Jen’s apartment is the “Lower East Side Troll Museum.” Hundreds of them, naked and bejeweled, line the walls. Further inside Jen’s paintings of unicorns, aliens and fairies...
“Latina Glitter”, a story of mine was selected for The Best Sex Writing of 2012. This is the story BEHIND that story. The meta best sex writing of 2012. All photos taken at La Cueva by Edmund X Whit...
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In the world of girl movies, when your protagonist gets new hair or suddenly starts wearing a new color, it’s a sign–the character has changed, cue climax, shit it about to go down. I am ...
All photos by Alicia Vera (and of no one interviewed) I recently became obsessed with stripper blogs. I was staying up late, reading about “musical theater” strippers, female customers who jump on on...
Why isn’t divorce a good thing? When news of any divorce spreads, it is with a certain sadness (even in celebrity marriages, RIP Thurston Moore and Kim Gordon) or sometimes it is with a little smugne...
This weekend is my birthday. Also, I will be on my period during my birthday. But that is not what this post is about. This is about another birthday, my twelfth birthday, when I did not get my perio...
photo cred (note, not the interviewed couple in the photo.) The couple met in L.A. Sebastian, a music producer with long hair and a beard, was immediately taken with Catherine, a brunette musician wi...
photo cred Caitlin, Robert, Yelle, Leandra, Alex and Kyle sleep together in the same tent at Zuccotti Park. “Everyone is romantically, intimately and sexually involved,” says Robert. They are a polya...
Click picture for large (readable) version Hey, did you catch that feature story I wrote for the New York Observer? The one about the future of abortion rights and abortion rights activism in the U....
Dear Rabbit, I am dating a 32 year old virgin, but I dunno about being “his first”. Dear Rabbit, what do you think of the “whats your number” conversation. Is asking how many ...
photo by Giulia Agostini When I was a kid, I thought “sex” was two people peeing on each other. Like, I imagined you got in a bed naked and cuddled for so long that inevitably you would have to pee....
According to EJ Graff, scholar and author of the book What is Marriage For, there are five static reasons people have married throughout time: 1. property, 2. kin 3. money 4. order 5. heart. When I g...
This is a guest post by the notorious Quiet Riot Girl. Remember that review by Lindy West last year, of Sex In The City II? Where she inquired: “What is the lubrication level of Samantha Jones&...
Recently my husband and I went on a double date. We met my friend Kate and her husband Bear, at a German Beer Hall. I hadn’t met Bear, and I always find meeting a friend’s partner interesting. Kate s...
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