Image by Daryl Banks. Today is Valentine’s Day — in case you hadn’t heard! Now, Valentine’s Day can be lovely. For example, tomorrow, everything pink, red & heart-shaped will ...
Photo by Liz Ham. Hey bunny! Happy weekend! It has been a crazy week for me, with lots of running around the city. It’s New York Fashion Week, which keeps everyone very busy, so I hope you̵...
So true! I’ve had this picture sitting on my desktop for months. It’s one of those harsh-but-true sentiments. If this describes your situation, just breathe & let it go. Get involved in s...
My interview with an escort last month caused a bit of an uproar. The majority of women were supportive of Alexis’ choice, while at the same time mentioning that she didn’t sound very hap...
Happy Friday, gorgeous! It’s a beautifully sunny — if a little bit chilly — day here in New York City, & I’m about to dash out of the house to run some long overdue errands. A...
If you’re feeling un peu down on yourself, here’s one really easy way to pull your socks up. Start writing a list of the things you love about yourself. I’m not talking about no 5 i...
Two years ago today, I put out a plea to end the Valentine’s Day madness, & decided to declare February the month of Radical Self Love. I didn’t know, then, what it would become. I didn...
Photo by Corrie Bond. Dear Gala, Boy or Girl? Girl or Boy? For the past nine months now, I’ve been asking myself this. No, I’m not pregnant. I just happen to be in love with two amazing p...
Have you ever considered sex work? Alexis (not her real name!) — like many of us — came of age at the peak of the sex-workers-as-bloggers phenomenon. She didn’t just read with idle ...
Brooke White, moi, Jessica Quirk & Summer Bellessaat The Girls With Glasses Show party! Cough, cough! Hello, from Illville! Mike & I have both been super-sick with this terrible cough — so bad ...
This is one of the most important songs I have ever heard. Maybe it’s something you need to hear, too. Maybe you should pass it on to your sister, your best friend, your aunt or your grandmothe...
Christy Turlington as Jean Seberg, by Ellen Von Unwerth. Greetings from my sick-bed! I’m lying here with Hank & Dolly, all three of us snuggled under the covers, as I cough & hack & grizzle idl...
One of the things I love most about New York City is the fantastic & wide selection of interactive art. I have never been very good at simply looking at a picture hanging on a wall, even though I app...
By Miles Aldridge. Sometimes a girl needs some help! Yep, it’s true. I’m on the hunt, & maybe you could be the genius I’m seeking! I’m currently looking for… A wardrobe ...
“If the thing you wish to do is right, & you believe in it, go ahead & do it! Put your dream across, & never mind what “they” say if you meet with temporary defeat, for “they,” perhaps, do not ...
Alt Summit was a blast. If you haven’t heard of it before, sit back & get settled because I’m about to tell you! Basically, Alt Summit is the most fun blog conference I’ve ever atte...
Happy Friday, my love! Man, what a week it’s been! Yesterday & today have been Alt Summit mania, & it’s been so much fun! I can’t wait to give you the full run-down soon! Here are s...
Hello from Salt Lake City! I just flew in last night, & boy, are my arms tired! (Hahah, oldest joke EVER!) I took these photos in the Delta terminal while I loitered, waiting for my flight. Ever sinc...
Celebrate everything! The world is full of small wonders. Who can argue with the magnificence of baby teeth or big fluffy clouds? Who could deny the beauty of a pink convertibles, or a plane streakin...
Happy Friday! First things first: if you haven’t heard Jay-Z’s song for his daughter, Blue Ivy Carter — link below — you need to. It is heart-melting & surprisingly personal. ...
“I’ve had a good time! God, man, I rode around this country free as a bee.” (Jack Kerouac) Let’s talk bicycle style! If you, like me, are new to loving bicycles, it can be a relief ...
Photo by Karin Mathilda. When you’re in a long-term relationship of any degree of seriousness, it’s easy for the magic to fade away. Repeated conversations about the regularity of your ne...
You know, if you grew up listening to Bauhaus & Sisters of Mercy, it never really leaves you. Even though you may have moved on from the dog collars, PVC & eye of horus make-up of yore, a certain dar...
If Betty Draper lived in an alternate universe, this is how she would shop for clothes.1 Perfectly coiffed & immaculately presented, she’d teeter on the edge of her armchair, eyes fixed on the ...
Fabulous image by Note To Self! Brad Walsh is Christian Siriano’s partner. I love this post he wrote, in defense of Christian. He raises a lot of valid points & I adore his unwavering loyalty! ...
Burned out. Exhausted. Empty. Apathetic. Drained. Hopeless. Totally effing over it. Hit the wall. Sick of it. Breaking point. The last straw. Done & dusted. Everyone has a limit. What should you do w...
Things to do in New York City: Visit the New Museum, float about on a mirrored carousel, whizz down an enormous indoor slide, stick your head inside an aquarium full of phosphorescent fish & hang out...
“Now that it’s all over, what did you really do yesterday that’s worth mentioning?” (Coleman Cox) Put this in your diary: “In 2012, I will write a personal mission state...
Happy New Year! I hope you had a fantastic evening, whatever way you decided to celebrate. New York City was amazingly, unseasonably warm last night, which was a very auspicious beginning to the year...
Empty your rubbish bins Buy two big bunches of beautiful, fresh flowers & display them prominently in your living room & bedroom Change your bedding (in our case, we’ll be making the bed up wit...
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