Jim Plocker

Waiting for a love one to die


My great Aunt is dying and it should be anytime now that she passes on. She has had an amazing life and knock on wood with no health problems until now. She fell and broke some ribs and has never really recovered.

At this point she has decieded that this is it for her. I totally understand that at the age of 85 she would rather die then have to be taken to a nursing home and give up her apartment. It is her wish for the family to understand that her will to live is gone.

But, for the past 3 days she has been in a very deep sleep and is still holding on. The mind maybe strong but it is the body that says I can no longer fight. My family is just waiting around for her to pass.

I honor her wish to give into dying even if we want her to stay around. I believe in life after death and that we live on in spirit. So I am now waiting for my new angel to watch over me.

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To my Aunt Indye

The following is what I wrote for my Great, Great Aunt who is dying.

Growing up I always heard how special Aunt Indye was. My father had a special relationship to Indye and he always said she was his favorite. I would say I didn’t think of Aunt Indye as my great, great aunt but more of a grandmother.

Indye was such a special person to us all. Her love could fill a room with warmth that we could all feel. I always felt so loved and in return she has and always will be in my heart even in her passing. I loved when she would call me up for my birthday and sing to me even up until the age of 45. Indye had asked me to do one thing for her before she died and that was to get married. This makes me very sad in one way but what I know in my heart is that when the time comes her spirit will there with me. At least she left this earth knowing that I am happy and healthy and that’s all that really matters to her really.

Indye had an amazing life and now it’s time for her to join the rest of the family that is waiting for her. She may be gone from us physically but never in spirit and she will watch over all of us to make sure we keep all the promises that were made to her. There is not one day that goes by that my dad is not in my thoughts and I know it will be the same with Aunt Indye. Plus, can’t you hear all the laughing that will go on when all the Lesnick’s meet up to greet our special Indye.

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