A Maudlin Pet Peeve: Are You In Love With Yourself?........ Continued


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Al & Tipper Gore
Had similar
upbringing
And in 2010, mutually separated
Can A healthy Upbringing Gear You Towards Similarity? As I observe, I noticed that individual with what we call a healthy upbringing, led more towards the fixation to interpersonal relationships/marriage.
On the other hand, when someone has had an unhealthy upbringing they usually go into partnership for the wrong reasons, Such as: Diassociation, can also play tribute to an attraction to dissimilarity... just pondering..
The law of Opposite Attracts, & Lowly Fragilities Difference scares people, now matter

Jesse James and Sandra Bullock
Consequences Of Opposites Attract

What They Say! Although, this generation claim to be different, open, and need for exploring new avenues, many generations go through that spell, we haven't changed, and won't. However complementary lovers, appear more so than ever..that behooves a conflict of interest...
Which brings me too The-lackey-wacky-tacky-daffy- I want what you havey
Unlike my first shallow mates, complementary, is favoured by many. In basic terms, you have what I lack, so now give it to me.
These complementary partnership has a strong foundation, however, it can turn a harmonious relationships into a nightmare.

"Big Bang Theory"You're my homunculus
Leonard, and Penny

For an Example: I'll go back to Leonard relationship, and Penny relationship, yet again, Leonard admires Penny for her differences, however, when the relationship in motion, he tries his hardest to mold her to what he wants her to be. That same desire that brought them together, also created an on, and off again relationship.

The need to suppress her individuality, to convert her to his mold of needs and desire. Also, relates to his mother, and never being able to control his surrounds, now he has the chance to control.

"The Way We Were"
Katie Morosky & Hubbell Gardiner

While this is beneficial for Leonard, it can became hectic for Penny, and where the benefit falter. This primal need, also effected Katie.
While I can delve Into this topic, All Day. Everything Must Come To An End. So let me leave with a note L-O-V & The E Now you know what it's like, to live in my head.
I love a challenge, I live for it; so I'm always baffled why people take the easy way out, psychological or in the physical form.
I never want to be with anyone with similar attributes, to me.
I love me don't get me wrong, and I'll never get bored of me, however, I don't need to be with some like me to validate my ideals, and reasoning. In fact, every one of ex's has been completely opposite of me, down to religion, color, language, political beliefs.

I simply, do not care about these things.
The corrupted mysteries we never solve. They're created to make wedged between people, and we continue with it, turning away from the scene of the crime, out of fear.
I don't fall in love with ideas, I fall in love with the person.
Although, let it be noted that individuals have said to me, on many occasions, Nailah, not everyone is like you. I get it, but these simple things keep the world the same.. these insubstantial ideas, that are constantly ignored. We are cut speechless, out of fear of hurting someone feelings.
Its the circle of life, and that life includes, questions that no one wants to answer.

I know, I've stated many times, you can't help who you love, however, ask yourself, 'are you falling in love with yourself? could no one every satisfy you, but you?
Amour Toujours Nailah D'arcy
Reference/Other Great articles bps-research-digest.blogspot.com
Law of attraction Interpersonal compatibility meta-analysis villanova.edu/patrick.markey/Article%201.pdf uidaho.edu/klocke/publications/jpsp91.pdf Interpersonal attraction http://books.google.
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