Who am I kidding, I will settle for buying a guitar and learning how to play. I have however been pondering a couple of things related to the starting of a band, making music and being the coolest mom on the block!
I attended a parenting course a couple of years ago. The guy presenting the course mentioned that he started a band with his kids because he wanted to have something he could do with them. Naturally he took what they were interested in (band) and became an expert in the field.
A couple of months ago I read my twitter bio and got very depressed. I literally defined myself by the roles I have. I was no longer Alet. I was a mold occupying the roles of mom, wife, friend, colleague, student and daughter, etc. The sad part is, I am not doing anyone – least of all my husband and boys – a favour by being less than me. Somewhere in the past couple of months I decided I would make an effort to rediscover myself. I made an effort for find the quirky person that loved being different, that loved doing something upstream and out of the norm.
I decided that I would make an effort to stand out. My aim is simply to be as brave as Logan and as giddy as Oliver. I made a promise to myself to try new things and to be open to new experiences.
Here are a couple of things I have been up to:
I am sure I could add a bunch of other things to this list – things that I can’t even think of right now. What I can say, is that I am really looking forward to this journey of discovery of self-discovery. Here is a question for you – what do you do to keep your “roles” from overpowering the inner you?
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