Todays Rant: Sucky People
The Harsh Reality…
A topic I cannot stand having the need to discuss, yet, I cannot get off my mind. It’s the harsh reality of human nature. Let’s be honest here… there are many people in this world who absolutely suck! Whether it’s a once in a while kind of suck, or an all the time kind of suck, the word seems to fit them perfectly.
We all have these types of people in our lives. In fact, you may be one of them for another person in your life. The reality though… they exist… they are here… they are not going away… and you might have to deal with them… a lot.
Lately, more of the “sucky” type of people have reared their ugly faces to me. I have had to dodge bullets, ignore comments, pretend like some don’t exist and even walk away when I would prefer to say exactly what I feel which would unfortunately cause a backlash more harsh than a terrible Tsunami.
I wish I could say there is a good way to deal with people who have the “suck” factor but the truth is, if they already suck, most likely, it’s not a personality trait that can easily be changed.
So… what do you do about these “sucky” people… If you don’t want to obliterate them from your life (which would be a solid option), you need to have boundaries, a back bone and not let yourself get easily offended.
As far as the people that have sucked in my life recently… I cut two out of my life (incompletely), and the other, I cannot throw away completely, but the boundaries I have set are working well for me… for the moment.
