One of the things that I do often in life, as much as I dislike it, is actually quitting. Quitting and doing things halfway - basically not completing or finishing what I start.
-And I have nearly quit blogging after nearing a whole year of writing it. In fact, running it for so many months has been a record and I never thought I could last this long until well, in May 2013 when I gave in to my flaw and disappeared. I actually did not want to quit writing but I keep stacking myself up with excuses until I am practically buried by it. All kinds of lame, ridiculous excuses - anything at all to stop myself from writing. Why was I doing that? I do not know. Perhaps it was caused by laziness, or perhaps it was caused by some other interference in life and I've been trying hard this recent years to get rid of my flaws as much as possible yet I've failed.
For 2 whole months, I was absent, telling myself I will start writing again once I get through with some of the matters on my hand. Well, what I realized is, there is never such thing as the "right time" or "perfect time" to do it. The only "time" that matters is when you actually take the time to initiate or do something. YOU have to make it happen, time will not make that happen for you so
HERE I AM FOLKS. MISHBERRIES IS BACK IN BUSINESS BLOGGING.
I missed blogging and I missed all of you. How have you all been? I am pretty sure you are all doing great as time and greatness does not stop just because I stopped blogging >D
That brings me to realize another thing. Well I actually realized this some time ago but I thought today is a good day of bringing it up :D No day is actually a good day unless I make it so =P
I've realized that the world does not revolve around me, never ever around me. What I do, what I say at most affects a minimal number of people around me and to what extent, I do not know but other that than, I am nothing and no one to other people but I alone, can make a difference.
I alone can make a difference to myself and only I can make myself happy. I've been asked and perceived often by people around me:
"Why are you always so happy?" "Wow you are such a happy-go-lucky person" "Hahaha mish is a potato aka everything goes, everything's okay" "Mish is so lucky, she has everything and gets everything that she wants therefore she is so happy every day" -> I kid you not, I got this too.
Today, I am going to share "Mishberries's Secret to Happiness" with you. There is no hard and fast rules. There's only one rule: And that is, your happiness lies in your head (not hand) and not anyone else's. You got to decide what makes you happy and what makes you not.
Happiness does not drop from heaven into my hands. I have what I have today is because I partly earn it and I am partly lucky.
The part where I earn it and the part where I am lucky is illustrated below.