Bad Parenting Styles

Which parenting style do you think it's most likely to put your kid at risk once they go off on thier own and doing every single thing for your kid, thinking you're being protective from the big bad world? Or giving them every freedom with little guidance almost cutting them off and letting necessity be the mother of invetion? I'm going to give some time to think about the right answer but believe me, both are wrong because both of these parenting styles are extremely hazardous and can eventually cripple your child for life.
When you find your kids at risk or getting in trouble, they came from the extremes of the parenting continuum. This is not to scare you as a mom or dad but to create an urgent awareness about how are you preparing your children for the real world not the one you wish they were inheriting. That means you don't really have to be a helicopter parent overprotecting your kid and too stuck that you don't anywayelse to be. That includes taking every aspect of life of your child like flossing their teeth or making sure they still breathing at night when sleeping by checking upon them several times at night putting your hand on their chests to feel their pulse. Some other moms and dads do their kids homework so the young ones got stuff fixed rather then getting bad grades, quite strange isn't it? They are just parenting from fear and they realize they do go to the extreme performing a bad application nevertheless. Many of those parents are actually selfish due to their massive concern about how they do feel about any disappointment accuring with their kids. Thus, those parents care about what they feel and not about the kid's need to learn and face responsibilities in a natural healthy way.
I strongly advise you to not hover right over top your kid's shoulder and wait for him to do something wrong. Your child must have zero friends coming over because of your behaviour. He just terrified that you may say something that might offend his friends. Your kid doesn't belive he has learned as much independence as he should have. He might come up to you one day and simply say something to you that proves your parenting skills are not fine with they he should grow up with. Don't be shocked if nything like that happens and if it does it may give your some objectivity to change your ways. You should be aware that if you continue your process over a long period of time, your kid will never know anything because you basically do everything for him. He will never understand what the risks are because he's not developing skill sets to master his environment. He will be uncapable of observing himself conquer obstacles in his life. And that's how you build self-worth and confidence. You just cheating him out of his chance to shine and overcome challenges because he is belive or not smart enough and intelligent to hande various things by himself. Your child needs to experince life with its ups and downs. It is a normal progression in life for kids to grow up and start to break away from mom and dad and become independent and the more controlling you are the more violent that break away becomes. It becomes rebellious, so all your doing is inducing on your kid a dependency on you which is utterly wrong.