A relative did not do this to me but my mother did. When I was younger (younger than I can remember) she relaxed my hair. Sadly, the relaxer was fake so my hair started to come out in clumps. I don’t remember how my hair was but apparently it was really beautiful. I was so sad, and still am when I hear and think about that story because my hair is nothing like people describe to me how it once was and I really which it was.