As I work on sewing my red shirtdress, I am reminded of this quote:
'Know why?
My fear of making mistakes is the main reason why I put of finishing projects. I avoid trying new things especially when I'm unsure of how to solve a problem or am scared to try a new technique due to fear I will 'RUIN the fabric'. I may even occasionally obsess about what others (that's you included) will thing of my fabric choice, style and construction methods. Wouldn't it be shocking if I wore something that was not up to my standards of perfect? Because honestly, sometimes they can be pretty unattainable!
I thought it was the worst feeling in the world to totally botch a project that will forever be known as a failure. But I realized this week there is something worse than that. The worst thing I can do is
visualize myself making a mistake and thinking my project will fail, and then stalling for months and thereby not possibly making mistakes that I could have already learned from by now.
I may also be guilty of leaving UFOs in plain sight to punish myself and remind myself that I must finish them. I am learning to let go, put them away, and work on them one at a time.
I decided I would use my red shirtdress as an opportunity to practice the following:
1. Practice positive visualizations. 2. Have reasonable expectations. 3. Realize that making mistakes is part of learning
and it can be a positive thing. 4. Resist the urge to relive past failures.
You know what?
It's working!
I've pushed through my fears and despite my day job, I found a lot of time to work on my shirtdress. I have a lot to show for it already:
I couldn't find my buttonhole foot but it didn't stop me from making buttonholes using my walking foot:
I used piping in a garment for the first time EVER:
I moved the bust dart to the shoulders and turned it into a couple of pleats. My drafting job wasn't perfect but I decided to just go with it. OVER-ANALYZING LITTLE DETAILS is something I'm just not willing to let get in my way. I'm amazed what I can accomplish with positive thinking!