Before having children life was Last minute weekend trips to Vegas, a month in Hawaii, shopping for deals on designer clothes, nights on the town at local, dinner at swanky restaurants. In 2009 my whole world changed (for the better) when I started a family. Now in my late 30's I have a 3 year old and a new born and my sister has new born twins. We have joined forces to create DIY Trophy Wife. I modern woman's guide to living the Trophy Wife Life without sacrificing her family.