Welcome to the February 2014 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Parenting Fears
This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants have shared stories and wisdom about parenting fears.
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I homeschooled both my children through high school. They’re 23 and 28 now, so I’ve gotten the answers to my homeschooling questions.
This was one of my biggest homeschooling questions: Will my children regret being homeschooled?
I could tell that my children were happy they were homeschooled, and they had told me before that they liked being homeschooled. But I decided to interview them for this post to get an exact answer to my question: “Did you ever regret being homeschooled?” Following are their answers.
Will, 28, said he liked homeschooling and didn’t regret being homeschooled. He said:
“Homeschooling made me a more independent thinker. Homeschooling was also more interesting. I studied a better variety of topics.
“Because I was involved in skating, I still had a social presence. I do think homeschoolers need to be involved in some sort of social activity for their kids.”
Christina, 23, also said she liked homeschooling and didn’t regret being homeschooled. She said:
“I really liked that I was able to graduate two years early. That meant that I was able to graduate from college at age 19, which is extremely rare.
“I loved the freedom of being able to do my schoolwork at different times of the day so that I could keep up my busy schedule of ballet, skating, workouts, and karate.
“Being homeschooled also meant that I didn’t have to spend lots of extra time on homework and inessentials. Instead, I was able to focus and spend more time on what was important for me to learn.
“I enjoyed being taught by my mom. She’s an excellent teacher, and it was always nice to be around her more.
“Homeschooling also helped me be more independent as I grew older and was able to take more responsibility for my studies.”
If you’d like to know more about our homeschooling experience (and more about my inadequacies as a homeschooler), here are some posts you might enjoy:
For a list of many of my homeschooling posts and resources, check out my Homeschooling Resources post.
Because I used Montessori principles in homeschooling, following my children’s interests was a major focus of our homeschool. If you’d like to see some examples of how my children followed their interests, here’s a video of Will and his pair partner, Aaryn Smith, performing their “Phantom of the Opera” long program at their first Junior Grand Prix in 2004.:
Here’s a video of Christina and her ice-dance partner, Mark Hanretty, performing their Scottish Folkdance OD at the 2010 World Figure Skating Championships in Turin, Italy:
Here’s a video of Christina and Mark performing a show program to Michael Jackson’s “Earth Song”:
In addition to being successful skating coaches now, Christina and Will have followed their interests in other areas. Will’s B.A. is in Communications with his minor in Music Industry Studies. He uses both his communication skills and music knowledge in his successful DJ business, Dancing DJ Productions. Will loves his combination of being a skating coach and a DJ.
Christina’s B.A. from Sheffield Hallam University in England is in Performance and Professional Practice. Christina always enjoyed writing and is a book author. Also, Christina and her British husband are both fitness experts who co-founded Fit Body Full Life. They are having fun right now performing in their 1- and 30-day challenges on YouTube and enjoy their entrepreneurial adventures.
So, I learned that I didn’t have to be perfect. Everything turned out fine … better than fine! Based on my experience, my number-one advice to homeschooling parents is simple … realize you don’t need to be perfect.
Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:
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