I have a book from the 50's entitled "The Intelligent Woman's Guide to Good Taste". Now "Good taste" has Martha Stewart connotations and is not an acceptable term. What is? Is "style" the catch all expression? If so, what is style and is it something that can be achieved? As taste is a matter of perception, both the way you perceive yourself and the way that others perceive you, can there ever be complete agreement that someone has style? And does it matter?